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Woman’s Mojo – Confidence IS Sexy!

January 19, 2012 1 comment

Before you can “be sexy” – you need to “be confident”!  It’s critical to anything you will do as you move forward in this Mojo recreation of you!

It’s important that you look in the mirror and see the beauty everyone else sees.  Your eyes – Your smile – The way your nose crinkles when you smile – That little dimple on your cheek…Whatever it is YOU have something that is incredibly beautiful to people when they see you.  There are ways to emphasize those little (or big) assets.

A great way to find them is to make a trip to a department store or a makeup salon like MAC Cosmetics. I actually know a gal who, when she has a big event, will go in to a makeup store and have them help her apply her makeup for the event!  Just a small purchase of one of their products and you walk out with a GREAT look for the evening!  How cool is that?

When you put on your makeup – don’t just do the “go-to-the-office” makeup…really think it through – need help on a technique? Here’s a great website with step-by-step tutorials:  Makeup 101 – They have wonderful tutorials on everything from the basics to the WOW factor.

Now that your makeup is ready and your face is awesome, you need to see and love the rest of you too.  Your neck, collarbone, shoulders, bust, tummy (yes tummy), buns and legs.  Everything that makes you who you are is what is makes you sexy and beautiful.

Think of that breath on your neck from a lover, or that kiss on your shoulder from someone special?  Doesn’t that feel “sexy”?  It is – we all have erogenous zones that make our whole body react to just the simplest touch.

Your bust is you and whether it is large, small or somewhere in between, it is beautiful.  Want a larger bust – try tricks like wearing 2 bras instead of just one – try pulling the straps together at the back and safety-pin them for a more voluptuous cleavage.  Here’s a YouTube video that shares some more tricks for that special look!

Your tummy, whether it’s tight and firm, rounded, tight waist or that cute little pooch – it’s all about you loving you.  Remember – when you love yourself, others will see that and love you for you too!

Buns – well, there are a billion (make that 7 billion) different buns on this planet, so your buns are unique and no one will ever have one exactly like yours.  Remember – confidence – loving you. Here’s a quick 4 minute video that shares great Booty Workout to get you going for that booty you want!

And, last but NOT least are your legs.  Short, medium or long legs can all benefit by a couple of tricks.  Wearing nude color heels with nude hose helps make a continuous line from toe to waist and here are two more videos that share quick “How-To’s” to make your legs appear longer.  Just by pushing up the sleeves of your top will draw the eye up, watch this to see the how/why! And, here’s a video to show how to shop for the right shoe!

So, now you’re ready for that next step – keep following and we’ll be sure to share more tips on how to do continue that magical makeover to a sexier you!

Women – Traps We Lay for Ourselves When Working On Our Own Mojo!

December 13, 2011 Leave a comment
  • 1 – We all do IT. We all make silly remarks about our appearance, our body type, weight, hairstyle (or lack of) and what we don’t realize until it’s become a habit is that we are sabotaging ourselves and teaching our own psyche that we are less than someone else.

Well, today is the day you STOP…you are not the brunt of your own best jokes. We know what that is like; many of us from early childhood have done it – if we make fun of ourselves it won’t hurt so much when someone else does it – if we tell the joke on ourselves first then someone else won’t be able to use that jab to cut us.

  • 2 – Do you view sex as a chore or a job to do and get over with? Seriously? Over time, especially for women in long-term relationships some of the “spark” goes OUT of the romance and you need to think of sex as a way to put that spark back IN to your relationship. Remember when all you could think about was spending time with your mate and having wild, far-out, mind-blowing sex?

It’s a change in the way you think, but it’s a good thing when you think back to that time when you could hardly wait to get your lover in the bedroom (or the living room, or the dining room table – don’t confess that one to anybody who’s been to your house for dinner).

  • 3 – Get out of the routine you live day in and day out – Act out on those happy, frisky thoughts that run in and out of your mind – Change up that wardrobe and add some spice to your appearance in and out of the bedroom – Don’t skip those sexy caring for yourself things (manicure, pedicure, bubble-bath, exercise, meditation) – You need those for you to feel good about yourself.

Take a healthy overall look at your life and see what things you know you can change today and what things will take time…map out a strategy to get rid of the old, bring in the new and really work that Mojo!

Schedule a Romance Party Today!

Is Mojo JUST a “Man-Thing”? Heck NO!

November 20, 2011 2 comments

Are you ready to “ramp up your mojo” ladies?  Let’s get our mojo on and see how, as our own best friend, we CAN  be ALL that we can be!

Confidence is Beautiful

We’re going to be doing a series on really focusing on what you need to do in the next 4 weeks to make your life, sexual and every other facet better than you ever thought possible!

You’ll need to get rid of the excuses why NOT to do this:

  • I could NEVER do that!
  • I’m too busy!
  • I feel foolish!
  • Maybe I’m not supposed to be “sexy”!
  • My partner or friends think this is baloney!

Let me just say that you:

  • You CAN do this – You owe it to yourself!
  • We’re all busy, and this isn’t a “poof you’ve got your mojo”, but it IS worth it to every facet of your life – business, personal, relationships
  • Don’t feel foolish! – This is something you can do FOR you!
  • You ARE meant to be sexy – PERIOD!
  • Remember that this journey over the next few weeks is about you and although your partner will benefit from your transformation, stay focused on your goal!

Whether you’re a “sexual virgin” and have never had that mind-blowing sexual experience, the “adventure explorer”, the new mom or the late bloomer, this is for you…

Here are 3 things to reject right now and from this day forward:

  1. Anything that stands in my way of becoming the best and sexiest you!
  2. Denying yourself sexual satisfaction – in other words – No More Faking!
  3. Any type of damaging talk that includes negative words when referring to your body; comparing yourself to any other woman; putting yourself down to others (and even in your own mind)

3 things to embrace right now and from this day forward:

  1. The importance sex plays in your life – feeling sexy, desirable and ultimately satisfied
  2. Creating the sexy you that you are going to become and how it will affect my daily life
  3. The sisterhood – as you grow, share what you’re learning with others close to you – help them be the sexiest they can be too!

Hold on ladies – it’s going to be a fantastic ride!

For Your Start In To Your Mojo!

Health in the Bedroom!

August 5, 2011 1 comment

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Over the years, all women experience times when we don’t feel their best. Whether it’s a few pounds we’ve put on or lost (it works both ways) or work and pressure at the office to “perform” – no not sexually, I hope, but still put on a show and be at the top of our game.  Then, too often we go home to dirty laundry, dishes, hungry husband or kids and once again, have to perform. Does this start to feel like women are trained seals – maybe…Women are made different from our male counterparts. It’s just the way it is.  But we all want to feel sexy, and loved, and desired…that’s a part of what makes us women!

We see hundreds of advertisements all addressing male erectile dysfunction but women are left out of the equation in all but a few instances – they’re just a model in the commercial.  There are many reasons a woman may be unresponsive, in addition to the reasons shown above and over the course of the next few articles I hope to be able to address some of them.

One that rises to the top of the list, according to WebMD  is actual inhibited sexual desire.  This one men may not understand, but we as women need to educate them.  Whether we’re ashamed of something about our bodies, too tired, or just don’t know why – there are times when we are not interested in sex.  But, when you see the incredible benefits to a healthy sexual experience you can look at sex in an entirely new light.

Here are five benefits in having a healthy sex life!

  1. Sex relieves stress – and here you were TOO stressed to think about sex!
  2. Sex reduces pain!
  3. Sex helps you sleep better!
  4. Sex boosts self-esteem!
  5. AND – we all know that Sex burns calories!
So, go burn some calories, relieve stress and sleep like a baby.
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