The Art of Seduction – Part 3 – The Art of Touch!

When we are born we are wrapped in to a warm cocoon of a blanket and handed to our mother to be put close to her breast and feel her warmth and love.  As we grow up we go through stages of wanting to be touched and wanting to be left alone – you know “don’t embarrass me in front of the other kids, mom” –  to wanting that special guy or gal in your high school class just to reach out across the table and touch your hand.

We are a people who thrive on the touch of another human being. We desire it and long for it: when it isn’t there, we feel cold and alone. We see pampering as a massage or a facial or even just coffee across the table from a friend we can reach out to and touch. It’s in our DNA, what we’re made of deep inside and what our skin needs to feel warmth.

There is an art to touch though. Touching is so important in a relationship that you know your relationship is in trouble when you stop reaching out and touching one another. The hug can be so intimate that just that simple gesture can stimulate your senses and bring you to another level – just that quickly.

It’s important to know what your partner needs and communication is key:

• A gentle caress of the hand
• Holding hands when you walk through the park
• A tap on the butt
• Pushing hair back from eyes and looking deeply in to the windows of the soul
• A quick hug
• A deep and long hug that stirs the longings deep inside

So many ways we can say I love you and they are all a part of what makes us individual and connects us as a part of the human race – where touch can mean everything!

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The Art of Seduction – Part 2 – The Art of the Kiss!

In the movie Casablanca, “As Time Goes By“, sung by Dooley Wilson, has the famous line:  A kiss is just a kiss, a sigh is just a sigh; the fundamental things apply, as time goes by.

Bull!  There are more styles to a kiss than there are words to describe them!

You have the Hollywood or European kiss – kiss/side, kiss/side – that kiss always tells me “how I look is more important than how you feel”.  The pinch of the cheeks and the kiss on the top of the head from a favorite aunt or uncle.  The peck on the cheek from a friend you see all the time.  But, the one that says “I love you more than life itself” – that is the one that requires finesse and skill.  The fun part is that skill and finesse only come through much practice.  Can anyone say YES!

Touching your lips to the lips of another has always symbolized a seal – hence the phrase, sealed with a kiss. It can be emotional and dramatic; as moving as the touch of two souls.  Deep, long kisses that come up from the bottom of your very being and feeds a desire for intimacy; that is the kiss that you will remember long after it ends.  Remember that kiss from someone long ago and all of a sudden you are transported to another place and time – you can smell the wonderful way they smelled at that moment – the look in their eyes as they glanced in to yours – the feel of their arms around you…those are memories that when you least expect them will come out of nowhere and warm your entire body.

When you reach in to the deepest part of yourself and bring that in to the kiss with one you desire, you feed them – they feel what you feel and they react to it.  A long, ardent kiss sharing everything that you are with another person can be the most satisfying part of any encounter.  It says I love you with every fiber of my being and I want to share that deepest part of me with you in this intimate moment.

Some may like it rough and some may like it deep and long; but whatever it is that pleasures you, make sure it is also what pleasures your partner. The kiss is one of those things in this life that requires another person to participate and that is what truly makes the kiss so very special.

So, as your teachers used to tell you “practice, practice, practice” until you have it perfected.  And then, practice some more!

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Part 3 – The Art of  Touch

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The Art of Seduction – Part 1 – The Art of Flirting!

Do you realize how incredibly sexy you are?  Do you really?  Do you see how absolutely beautiful you are?  Do you really?

A lady, who is a lady at the party, and a tiger in the bedroom, is a woman that men will die for!

The “let’s get-it-on” isn’t always the way to approach your man when you want to have an evening of hot-blooded fun.  Seduction is the art that a woman needs to work (and work at if it doesn’t come naturally).  We are always learning new things – new positions – new tricks…but seduction really is an art-form.  It’s something to be practiced and the practice can be a huge part of the fun!

The “art of flirting” is something much more than you experienced as a teenager in high school or even as a young woman in college.  Flirting is a titillating skill that heightens the entire love-making experience.

Those Eyes!

Here are some refresher tips on flirting.

• Make sure the one you’re flirting with, is getting your subtle hints.
• Flirt with your eyes – those longing “Come Hither” looks from the old black and white movies STILL work!
• Flirt with your fingers – seduction is possible when your fingers trail over the person’s arm, or neck, or by running your fingers through their hair.
• Flirt with your words – telling your guy or gal that you find them attractive and that you know how special they are – is so sexy.

Here’s a really fun product to make that night of seduction – oh so warm!

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Part 2 – The Art of The Kiss

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I Am Woman – Hear Me Roar!

I love to party…you can probably tell by the company I chose to align myself with! And I love to show women how they can step in to their sexuality and what makes them “Oh-So-Special”.  When women get together and giggle and laugh and LEARN something new, it makes it even more rewarding.

We run monthly specials, and I’ll share them here in this blog, but the focus and desire for me is to enlighten and educate women on how they can be even more unique – for themselves and for that someone special in their lives.

Whether it is a costume, or lingerie, or something adventurous like soft, furry handcuffs and blindfolds – they are all fun to use in the right situation. Women, when we get to a certain age, we sometimes become shy and uncertain. Don’t let this be you! We are in an age when women are stepping up even more in to who they are. Celebrate that – Don’t hide from who you are or who you want to become.

You are all beautiful and what exactly makes you so, really depends on you. Let your inner beauty shine so that everyone around you (and especially that someone special in your life) sees that. That Helen Reddy song; I Am Woman, Hear Me Roar may be almost 40 years old, but today is OUR day to roar!

Are you in charge of arranging a Bachelorette Party? Are you a Bride who wants something different for your party?

I am offering a “Suite Week” to brides-to-be or friends of the bride who book a party in 2011. It can be any theme – birthday, girl’s night, house-warming, bridal showers/bachelorette party, etc. It does not have to be the Bachelorette party if the wedding is in 2012. Have the big party closer to the big date. BUT, get your Suite Week now so that you can plan a honeymoon that will be ‘budget friendly. The picture below helps explain and the new card is worth $1300 rather than $1200…

As a double incentive, I will also honor whatever promotions that the company is offering at the time of your 2011 party… this is one of our CURRENT hostess gifts for qualifying party totals. (Promotions are frequently updated)

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