The Art of Seduction – Part 3 – The Art of Touch!

When we are born we are wrapped in to a warm cocoon of a blanket and handed to our mother to be put close to her breast and feel her warmth and love.  As we grow up we go through stages of wanting to be touched and wanting to be left alone – you know “don’t embarrass me in front of the other kids, mom” –  to wanting that special guy or gal in your high school class just to reach out across the table and touch your hand.

We are a people who thrive on the touch of another human being. We desire it and long for it: when it isn’t there, we feel cold and alone. We see pampering as a massage or a facial or even just coffee across the table from a friend we can reach out to and touch. It’s in our DNA, what we’re made of deep inside and what our skin needs to feel warmth.

There is an art to touch though. Touching is so important in a relationship that you know your relationship is in trouble when you stop reaching out and touching one another. The hug can be so intimate that just that simple gesture can stimulate your senses and bring you to another level – just that quickly.

It’s important to know what your partner needs and communication is key:

• A gentle caress of the hand
• Holding hands when you walk through the park
• A tap on the butt
• Pushing hair back from eyes and looking deeply in to the windows of the soul
• A quick hug
• A deep and long hug that stirs the longings deep inside

So many ways we can say I love you and they are all a part of what makes us individual and connects us as a part of the human race – where touch can mean everything!

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